You're all a bunch of Myths.
Aug. 8th, 2011 08:58 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Wait! I figured out my problem!
Or someone in the INFJ community posted this: 10 myths about introverts
Same difference.
I'm worried about some of my friends who have bad things going on in their lives right now, so I'm not going to ramble on pointlessly about my personal issues. Whatever, self. Get over it.
And stop procrastinating. How the heck is it already 9:00? I've accomplished nothing! Geez.
Or someone in the INFJ community posted this: 10 myths about introverts
Same difference.
I'm worried about some of my friends who have bad things going on in their lives right now, so I'm not going to ramble on pointlessly about my personal issues. Whatever, self. Get over it.
And stop procrastinating. How the heck is it already 9:00? I've accomplished nothing! Geez.
INFJ?
Date: 2011-09-25 10:48 pm (UTC)And yes, I've been reading for a while now. I've never met you, though I hope to change that someday, but I think you've got the right idea about not listening to other people's opinions about what you ought to be doing. Other people don't understand your individual reality and think their idea of what you should be doing is not only ideal but realistic. And as far as choosing to be in a relationship or not, That's never seemed like the question, the question is if there's someone worth being in a relationship with. And there's not a lot of those out there. When you meet them you'll know it, and commitment won't even be part of the discussion, it will be understood.... Of course I'm a die hard romantic who hasn't had a decent relationship ever..... But I am still an idealist.
Re: INFJ?
Date: 2011-09-26 02:16 pm (UTC)And thanks for reading. Feel free to stop if you get bored with it. I realized this thing goes back seven years, so really, that's probably a little too much about me, haha. It can be kind of hard not to listen to other people because I care a lot more than I should, even when I'm convinced that I don't care at all. I can't really turn my brain off ever, so having other people influence it always muddies things a bit and drives me crazy.
I haven't really looked at being in a relationship that way. That's something I'll have to think about.